Gentlemen: Pray every day for a Godly wife. Seek the Lord in prayer and ask Him to bring you a Godly woman. It is OK to do that. Remember, you are asking the Lord for “a good thing.” And as Jesus reminds us, “How much more will your Father who is in Heaven give good things to those who ask Him” (Matthew 7:11) Also, pray for wisdom and discernment. God is more than willing to give that to you as well if you will ask Him for it (James 1:5–8). Pray for your future wife’s protection and her own growth in Godliness.